Originally Posted by
fuego
The Holy Spirit taught me many years ago after I had gone through some lust bondage these two thing:
1. What you expose your soul to it will conform to.
2. What you give your attention to, you will develop affection for.
And taught me the only control we have is to NOT EXPOSE OURSELVES TO IT. One you choose to indulge by exposing yourself to it, it has its effect whether you want it to or not. You can't watch or listen to something damaging and and say, "Well that doesn't affect me." You're deceiving yourself. It does. The only control you have is to not expose it to yourself in the first place. Now I'm not saying watching or listening to something one time 'damages' you per se, but it starts the process. And if you continue you WILL conform to it. That's how we are made.
Now having said that, and knowing those 2 principles I stated above, we can do the same thing and purposely expose ourselves to righteous, godly, and holy things. That's part of the principle of meditation of the Word. Exposing yourself to the Word on purpose in order to expose yourself to it so that your soul will conform to it and give it attention so that you will gain affection for it. Confession is a part of meditation. We expose ourselves to the Word out our own mouth and our soul conforms to it and we develop affection for it.
Proverbs 4
20 My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings.
21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart.
22 For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh.
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.
24 Put away from thee a froward mouth, and perverse lips put far from thee.
25 Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee.
Joshua 1
8 This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.