So true, Sis, me too, on a number of occasions - And unfortunately, many of these instances were situations when Hubby and I were "fellowshipping" with other
Pastors and their wives!
TRUE CONFESSION: I don't usually talk about this, but I'm gonna share this with you all - My Brothers and Sisters in Christ...
I was raped 3 times - By 3 different men - On three different occasions.
Each time, it was as a result of me
overtly *flirting* with them - I wasn't trying to *seduce* them, I was just acting like a lot of unsaved, twenty-something women do.
I didn't report the incidents, because I felt it was my fault for starting a fire I couldn't put out...
After the "third strike," I was out, and started acting more "civilized" and lady-like around men.