.....because someone you love hurt you? Especially in a way you never expected?
It is gut wrenching! It hurts so badly.
But......there is a way to alleviate the pain. Humility, mercy and forgiveness.
Let them know how you feel and then be humble enough to accept the fact that you may have done/may do in the future the same thing to someone else. We're imperfect!!!!
This allows you to have mercy. This can replace the feelings of anger and bitterness that seem to swallow you up. We do love it when mercy is extended to us....
Then forgiveness falls naturally into place and you are free of the burden of anger, hatred and bitterness. It can take a while to work through it all but it will get easier.