Gotcha!
Actually I was talking to someone this morning about OSAS and caught myself saying God does not divorce us because of our unfaithfulness, however the unfaithful will eventually divorce God.
I decided to look for a teaching or book or something and could not find anything....but isn't that the reality of 'losing salvation'?
I do not believe God says 'you are unfaithful so I divorce you' since Jesus and the new birth. I believe He remains faithful and constantly woos His beloved until His beloved completely walks away. That is why I do not believe anyone can be 'born again' multiple times.
Addendum...I also do not believe backsliding per se is losing salvation...I see it as a progression away from the relationship that if continued will eventually lead one to divorce...which IMHO is the reprobate...I also do not believe the reprobate is obvious to the religious eye.