Originally Posted by
Lista
Well then, let me be a voice of someone married 11 1/2 years, divorced, and now remarried for 5 1/2 years. I think Jakes was WRONG to say these 2 should get divorced. None of us are guaranteed "happiness" and when we commit to a marriage with stick with it, regardless of the circumstances. Are there "loop holes"? Of course...the ones already listed, adultery, unbeliever, and I would add that if someone is in an abusive relationship they need to get out, and get safe. If the Lord gives them the ok to divorce, then who am I to judge?