I am glad she got kicked out. If that is the kind of church I think it is, she is better off finding another one that is better.
She should pay her tithe, however, only if she has an income. I don't know the whole story, but she and her kin are making such a fuss, I think she must be loaded (rich). Makes no diff, she should get out and go somewhere else where she is happy. Unless,of course, she is a trouble maker and meaner than a junk yard dog. And she may, possibly, could be, I think. Now I am not sure, but she may enjoy breaking the rules. I had a few like that in my church. They used their age to break the rules and get by.